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Thanksgiving 2019

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Great day to you!

I won’t pretend there’s a Turkey cooking for my family today.

We did our holiday early to celebrate with dad.

Historically, on this day as a child, every year, someone would inevitably ask, “what are you thankful for?”.

Well, I believe

… it’s extremely heartwarming to see kindness.

So that’s what I’m not only thankful for, but grateful for, when others are thankful and giving to others.

It’s something wonderful!

So, I do my due diligence to tell wonderful humans that looks don’t matter and to stay true to themselves because being yourself is how you become thankful. Which equals life of happiness.

So once we literally take the time to unpack our “demons/shadows/anger/frustration/bitterness/negative behavior” we allow ourselves to communicate ourselves calmly.

Balanced like.

  • You can tell people how you feel.
  • You may not be aggressive or pushy in any abusive way or the other person is aloud to protect themselves however necessary.
  • You can tell people what you like.
  • Never complain about what you don’t like because then you will have lost power and energy on talking and physically exerting yourself towards the complaint. Thus giving out more energetic information of static nonsense that brings your life just that right back. (If people specifically ask you “why don’t you like this?” Then use your intuition, but truly take the time to listen to yourself)
  • Conserve energy in new situations by observing. If people think you are shy, suprise them with your quick witted and tactful humor. Or just explain yourself. No big deal. Just a life hack for lightening the vibe.
  • Love yourself always. Just by being wherever you are purposely thinking positive self thoughts/mantras/self talk/meditation.
  • Treat others how you would love to be treated. #goldenrule-ish
  • Treat others how they ask to be treated as well. #supremerule
  • Devote all of yourself to your entire dream/goal/best self where you imagine helping others in your community and family and life is enjoyable in whatever way that means for you.
  • This is the juicy part! Once you start to imagine a positive potential future in your minds eye, if ANY negative feelings arise, a TRUE sign of maturity, strength, and growth is the ability to stay in that negativity long enough to resolve/redesign yourself/ shadow work/being your own best friend/truly self healing.
  • You must train yourself to take your negative imagery and tweak it to what you would like to have happened. Be your own super hero!
  • That’s a super power in my mind anyway!
  • It’s controlling dreams while awake.
  • It’s what every one refers to as “waking up”!!!
  • You are literally waking yourself up to not be afraid to be who you are meant to be.
  • Unafraid to meditate. Take time for yourself. Nurture yourself.
  • You love what you love for a reason.
  • What people did and/or told you happened.
  • You felt/feel it.
  • You have the ability within yourself to feel it just like the first time through nifty brain chemicals, but you also have the ability to forgive yourself for being put in any kind of situation that you had no control over that led to any tragedy or trauma for you.
  • Everything happens for a reason. (I used to fight this, but it’s just to true for me)
  • Once you provide the much needed care for yourself that noone else was able to provide for you during your negative memory, you can literally feel better and it is a lot like domino’s how the memories flood of how your life could have been better if the others around you had been their best selves.
  • This is rewriting your history. not to lie to yourself. It’s still a trauma in reality to you so validating how you feel is very important in self care.
  • Others love to tell us to feel differently. No thanks! Go elsewhere.
  • I am aloud to feel however I feel and so are you.
  • These feelings create our lives and we have a lot more influence than we are aware of.
  • This is what is so wrong about commercial programming and other similar brain or habit manipulation.
  • Meditation is key.

All this from some housecleaning and mindfulness of the morning.

#happythanksgiving2019

With love,

– @littlehollyopal

How to Handle Anger

Posted by in Family, Inspiration, Life Hacks, News

Had this beauty repeating in my head all morning so I decided to condense it

If you can teach yourself, (despite your upbringing), how to explain your anger -not express it. You immediately welcome solutions instead of continuing negative patterns.

This topic welcomes many questions, so feel free to ask if you need any clarity on what I mean!

Have a wonderful day!

– @littlehollyopal

Give It Your All

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Ultimately we humans learn that service to others is how we feel connected, confident, and whole.

Yet, it is easy to give up or give in to the needs or plights of others and potentially lose ourselves in the process.

No matter who is asking, it will always be in your best interest to listen to your own intuition.

You can hear other’s out, but what you do is always your choice.

So, in service to life, I have devoted myself (since very young) to give every task I choose to take on, my all.

I appreciate that I learned this lesson early in life.

#giftsfromtheyoungest

Love you all!

Have a great one!

– @littlehollyopal

November 9, 2019

Posted by in Conversation Starters, Family, Inspiration, Life Hacks, News

Hello everyone!

It’s so nice to see the positive comments in my comments on this blog, though I have major issues with pretty much everything except posting. I wanted to thank you all somehow!

I do not make any currency from this website.

It is something I choose to work on even though there is nothing personally that I gain, other than the hope of spreading balance and positive self talk and of course, compassion and integrity!

So, If you are working towards
the life of your dreams,
here’s a
Life Hack
It’s a big
“No, thank you!”
unless it’s a positive
“Oh Yay! Yes! Looking forward to it!”

– @littlehollyopal

Aloneness VS Loneliness

Posted by in Conversation Starters, Inspiration, Life Hacks, News, The Adaptive, Uncategorized

If you search the meaning of aloneness, oogly-googley comes up with some definitions that are a bit off from my own.

To me, aloneness is feeling content when alone. Having a tendency to choose peace and self care instead of frivolously giving away my own personal energy.

https://www.thefreedictionary.com/aloneness

Loneliness is the lack of feeling content when alone.

I choose aloneness: )

I have many wonderful friends and I think they are growing their love of aloneness as well.

Choosing quality time with anyone, especially family, is a key component to my whole “best day ever!” Life motto.

I am so grateful for the #selfcare my family has taught me to seek out.

Tarahdeen y’all! (You win! I win!)

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The 13 Best Habits of 2019

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The 13 Best Habits of 2019According to Holly#1 Practice Self Care#2 Take the time to figure out your ideal personal “best day” (because you’re worth it!)#3 Maintain Open mindedness#4 Show us them pearly whites! Smile!#5 Be Compassionate#6 Express gentle gratitude#7 Exercise#8 Alone time (including meditation)#9 Forgive Yourself (ya know, for whatever)#10 Let go of negativity in any form#11 Allow positivity to flow through you.#12 Accountability#13 Believe in yourself Have a #blessed day!- Holly

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