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The Reality of Caring

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How does anyone get others to care about causes near and dear to them?
They speak up, speak out, or get active in their desired cause.
I personally, am into scoliosis awareness, sustainability advocacy and awareness, humane treatment of animals, clean farming practices, healing through nutrition and exercise, nature, and many other passionate topics.
I am here to coach others in exchange for currency for a 40 acre sustainable farm.
We have the 40 acres in Oregon, USA.
There are roads needed.
We will be drilling for hot springs and well water.
We will be building living quarters and music/art studios.
We will have to grow trees, greenery, build greenhouses, hydroponics, aquaponics, solar power, wind energy, and all the like.
We strive to build a better tomorrow for our children, our friends, and family. With a major goal of being as safe as possible.
Devotion to individuation will allow each soul to come to their philanthropic awareness on their own timeline.
We will set pertinent, but obviously not impenetrable laws, for the community to have a firm ground and helpful boundaries.
Adversity is desired with clear objectivity towards others paths and histories.
For those ready, we must forgive and let go, but never forget what makes us who we are.
In a time so different from any other, yet somehow with a very similar feel with the “War mentality”, it is inner balance through individualized awareness that will bring such peace into each of our own realities.

If you love the Northwestern United states and are looking to jump on a great cause for the betterment of planet earth. Feel free to contact us or donate via PayPal.

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Best wishes!
– @littlehollyopal

How to Achieve “High Vibing”

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High vibing

Or not…

You do you

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So, you don’t like how you feel?

Or maybe you’re reading this for a friend.

No matter how it comes, high vibing feels right.

Suddenly everything is possible and everyone feels like they’re cheering you on.

Just me?

Well,

Here’s 13 secrets of the high vibing:

Feel free to ask any questions you may have down below.

13 Ways to Raise Your Vibration in 2020

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These happen to be 13 Ways that I raise my vibe too!

  1. Essential oils
  2. Exercise
  3. Natural lighting and fresh air
  4. Meditation
  5. Music
  6. Crystal’s
  7. Authentic Himalayan Salt lamp
  8. Houseplant upkeep and care
  9. Feng shui or declutter things that you do not enjoy anymore.
  10. Affirmations from gurus you enjoy.
  11. Massage from someone you trust.
  12. Write internal thoughts down and journal until you feel clear of negativity.
  13. Nap! (No joke) sometimes you just need to recharge!

If you have any questions, feel free to ask!

Many blessings to you and yours!

– @littlehollyopal

How To Pay Off Debt Faster in 2020

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Hello!

Since I started this website to share my voice, today I thought I would share how I’m overcoming obstacles in my life, in particular, paying off debt.

My husband and I do not come from wealthy, well rounded families. Pretty much the opposite.

We don’t let that effect us anymore and we live making decisions using our intuition the best we know how, authentically helping others along the way.

Here are 11 steps we are using to assist ourselves in obtaining financial freedom.

11 Ways to Pay Debt Faster in 2020

  • 1. List all Debt owed.

  • 2. Pay more than the minimum payment whenever possible.

  • 3. Pay off debt with highest interest first.
  • 4. Consider The Snowball Method of Paying off debt.
  • 5. Reduce spending everywhere possible.
  • 6. Cease using all credit, if possible.
  • 7. Add a side hustle to increase income.
  • 8. Sell any of your unused/ unwanted items.
  • 9. Consider contacting your credit card and loan companies to see if you can negotiate lower interest rates.
  • 10. Organize Bill’s and do budget plan until debt is paid off.
  • 11. Build savings account to be able to afford 8 months of monthly bills.
  • So far so good on our plan and we used Google.com and makemoneyforsure.com to obtain some of our information.

    May blessings rain down on y’all!

    – @littlehollyopal

    #Balance

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    With #balance comes letting go and remaining dedicated.

    It’s personal knowing (using our intuition) that helps us make these decisions.

    So… imagine you are with friends or fam and you aren’t very good at speaking your mind, so you tell others, “Whatever you want.” More often than not.

    From my point of view, I did this to avoid conflicts.

    If I don’t have an opinion then you cant be mad at me, right?

    Not necessarily…

    People don’t necessarily always make sense.

    But, this minuscule act of selflessness isn’t a big deal, right?

    Well, how often do you put what you might like aside to please others?

    I did it all day every day from school years till very recently.

    I love to please others. Serve others. Help others, care for others, etc!

    It’s a need that fulfills my insides.

    As a child, this tendency to be selfless made it easy to be friends with anyone (but honestly, not everyone deserved my time or attention), and I was left feeling empty and used.

    My parents were so glad I had friends so this added to my confusion.

    I had to go through a lot of shadow work to figure out that it was my constant indecisiveness in my youth to avoid conflict that made me almost unable to be decisive in adult life.

    I always heard the loud intuitive messages from inside, but small details were really hard for me. Almost always causing anxiety within myself. (Human design has helped me understand so much of this, it’s amazing!)

    None the less, this all brings me to balance.

    Are you always sacrificing yourself?

    Or on the other end of the spectrum, do you decide everything for everyone around you, not giving anyone else any choices?

    Neither are desirable for the people around these two scenarios.

    Balance is where it’s at : )

    If you have any questions, feel free to ask!

    Happy cold time of year in the American Northwest!

    Much love,

    @Littlehollyopal

    Thanksgiving 2019

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    Great day to you!

    I won’t pretend there’s a Turkey cooking for my family today.

    We did our holiday early to celebrate with dad.

    Historically, on this day as a child, every year, someone would inevitably ask, “what are you thankful for?”.

    Well, I believe

    … it’s extremely heartwarming to see kindness.

    So that’s what I’m not only thankful for, but grateful for, when others are thankful and giving to others.

    It’s something wonderful!

    So, I do my due diligence to tell wonderful humans that looks don’t matter and to stay true to themselves because being yourself is how you become thankful. Which equals life of happiness.

    So once we literally take the time to unpack our “demons/shadows/anger/frustration/bitterness/negative behavior” we allow ourselves to communicate ourselves calmly.

    Balanced like.

    • You can tell people how you feel.
    • You may not be aggressive or pushy in any abusive way or the other person is aloud to protect themselves however necessary.
    • You can tell people what you like.
    • Never complain about what you don’t like because then you will have lost power and energy on talking and physically exerting yourself towards the complaint. Thus giving out more energetic information of static nonsense that brings your life just that right back. (If people specifically ask you “why don’t you like this?” Then use your intuition, but truly take the time to listen to yourself)
    • Conserve energy in new situations by observing. If people think you are shy, suprise them with your quick witted and tactful humor. Or just explain yourself. No big deal. Just a life hack for lightening the vibe.
    • Love yourself always. Just by being wherever you are purposely thinking positive self thoughts/mantras/self talk/meditation.
    • Treat others how you would love to be treated. #goldenrule-ish
    • Treat others how they ask to be treated as well. #supremerule
    • Devote all of yourself to your entire dream/goal/best self where you imagine helping others in your community and family and life is enjoyable in whatever way that means for you.
    • This is the juicy part! Once you start to imagine a positive potential future in your minds eye, if ANY negative feelings arise, a TRUE sign of maturity, strength, and growth is the ability to stay in that negativity long enough to resolve/redesign yourself/ shadow work/being your own best friend/truly self healing.
    • You must train yourself to take your negative imagery and tweak it to what you would like to have happened. Be your own super hero!
    • That’s a super power in my mind anyway!
    • It’s controlling dreams while awake.
    • It’s what every one refers to as “waking up”!!!
    • You are literally waking yourself up to not be afraid to be who you are meant to be.
    • Unafraid to meditate. Take time for yourself. Nurture yourself.
    • You love what you love for a reason.
    • What people did and/or told you happened.
    • You felt/feel it.
    • You have the ability within yourself to feel it just like the first time through nifty brain chemicals, but you also have the ability to forgive yourself for being put in any kind of situation that you had no control over that led to any tragedy or trauma for you.
    • Everything happens for a reason. (I used to fight this, but it’s just to true for me)
    • Once you provide the much needed care for yourself that noone else was able to provide for you during your negative memory, you can literally feel better and it is a lot like domino’s how the memories flood of how your life could have been better if the others around you had been their best selves.
    • This is rewriting your history. not to lie to yourself. It’s still a trauma in reality to you so validating how you feel is very important in self care.
    • Others love to tell us to feel differently. No thanks! Go elsewhere.
    • I am aloud to feel however I feel and so are you.
    • These feelings create our lives and we have a lot more influence than we are aware of.
    • This is what is so wrong about commercial programming and other similar brain or habit manipulation.
    • Meditation is key.

    All this from some housecleaning and mindfulness of the morning.

    #happythanksgiving2019

    With love,

    – @littlehollyopal

    Give It Your All

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    Ultimately we humans learn that service to others is how we feel connected, confident, and whole.

    Yet, it is easy to give up or give in to the needs or plights of others and potentially lose ourselves in the process.

    No matter who is asking, it will always be in your best interest to listen to your own intuition.

    You can hear other’s out, but what you do is always your choice.

    So, in service to life, I have devoted myself (since very young) to give every task I choose to take on, my all.

    I appreciate that I learned this lesson early in life.

    #giftsfromtheyoungest

    Love you all!

    Have a great one!

    – @littlehollyopal

    November 9, 2019

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    Hello everyone!

    It’s so nice to see the positive comments in my comments on this blog, though I have major issues with pretty much everything except posting. I wanted to thank you all somehow!

    I do not make any currency from this website.

    It is something I choose to work on even though there is nothing personally that I gain, other than the hope of spreading balance and positive self talk and of course, compassion and integrity!

    So, If you are working towards
    the life of your dreams,
    here’s a
    Life Hack
    It’s a big
    “No, thank you!”
    unless it’s a positive
    “Oh Yay! Yes! Looking forward to it!”

    – @littlehollyopal

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